“Being solitary is being alone
well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice, aware of
the fullness of your won presence rather than of the absence of others. Because
solitude is an achievement.” Said by Alice Koller defines and describes the
need for solitude and the need to be alone.
I agree with this quote or statement by Alice Koller, I enjoy solitude
and this does not mean I do not like to be around or involved with other people
whatsoever. I would have to say I am in
the middle of spectrum on the balance of personal solitude and involvement and
interactions with other people, but leaning more to solitude than involvement with
other people. I do not find being alone frightening
or scary at all, in fact I find it the complete opposite. Solitude is peaceful and relaxing, it for me
helps calm down my mind and slow down for a brief moment of time, as the world
around flies by at an extremely fast pace.
Being alone gives a person time to think, and I believe the thinking
that occurs while alone is very different from that of the thinking that occurs
when surrounded by others or while being over stimulated by the things
happening around you. When I am alone I usually
like to just relax, taking in the freedom of not being bothered by anything or
anyone, this usually is accompanied by music.
Usually easy going relaxing kind of music is what I prefer. While alone I also enjoy just laying in bed
and just watching some television without being interrupted or disturbed. I believe solitude is a must to remain sane,
although I am sure many people
disagree. I know of tons of people that
cannot stand to be alone, whether it is because they are frightened of the
thought of it, or they just enjoy being around others much, much more. As is
the same in the work environment. The type
of job a person chooses is directly related to their preference on being
alone. Some jobs are completely involved
in human interaction and rarely incorporates alone time. While other jobs are based almost solely upon
solitude and being alone, take for example a person who works and computers or
possibly a person such as an architect or engineer designing something. These jobs are done alone for the most part
and rarely involve group collaboration. These
kinds of jobs are my dream jobs, I would much rather work by myself than with a
group of people or be involved in pleasing or taking care of a people. Not saying I do not care about people I would
just much rather it not be involved in my job.
I try to balance solitude and group activities, but in the end I do tend
to prefer to be alone.
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